Friday

Equal Rights Means Equal Time, bitches

Someone in Colorado felt the need to leave this message:

Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "50-50 Parenting":

You nims need a reality check.
What kind of man-hating garbage is this?
I came to your site looking for insight on '50-50 parenting' and got this he/perp,she/victim bullshit? REALLY?
You sound like some outdated whiners loking to preserve the gender discrimnation that worked for you before.
WAKE UP.Its 2010
Equal Rights means Equal time,bitches.
get over it,quit trying so hard to DQ dad so you can get the checks and control.THAT party's over!
Good luck!

Posted by Anonymous to Randi James at Jul 5, 2010 12:05:00 PM


Apparently, he didn't like the truth about 50-50 parenting--which is that there really is no 50-50 parenting. I didn't make this up. All research that I have read says that men do not (and don't really want to) take part in any sort of equal childrearing responsibilities.
Don't be angry with me.

If you want to share parenting so equally, do that shit DURING the relationship. Do that shit BEGINNING with newborn care. Short of that, don't come with that old shared parenting bullshit...never mind the fact that sharing parenting doesn't even mean 50-50 time share.

People like anonymous want to hear what they want to hear and don't give a fuck about children and their needs and desires. It's all about their own needs which has a lot to do with not paying child support, coincidentally.

If this is preserving gender discrimination, then I charge men with participating in it. Like Smokey the Bear says,
Only you can prevent forest fires.
Anonymous person, you're the one who obviously needs to luck, not to mention other things.

Thanks for reading.